I wish I could tell you all the things that are wrong.

She is doing this because she loves him. She knows what he is doing is wrong, but she loves him. God's Love is unfailing, and it is our job as christians to act as him, and be forgiving and compassionate. I know he has done numerous things to ruin his life, and the lives around him. I know it seems unfair, and wrong. I know you want them to stop and think about how this is affecting his circumstances. But I doubt that they want their last memories of him to be living who knows where. God has a plan for everyone, and I believe that when it is time for him to smarten up, and get his act together he will. I have found that for something good to happen, something bad needs to happen first. It's just how the world works. I am so sorry that you haven't had him in your life, that when asked you deny. I love you. And as hard as it has been, I love him. As easy as it is to say that we should all leave him and let him smarten up that way, it might work for him to see all this love, and to understand that the world that he lived in is not loving, its hard, its raw, its not full, its empty, and one day he will realize that. Until then, prayer works, God works. God has pretty clever ways of dealing with things, and I think that in times like these we must turn to him and seek his guidance. Because we are small compared to him, He is the King of the Universe. He is almighty, and he can make a difference.
pray.pray.pray.

GodBless.
kylie.